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Angela
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July 4, 2017 05:13  

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amanda
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July 4, 2017 07:46  

The majority cause of break up, I think is mostly men. Men are demons in nature. In marriages, they women are the cause of divorce. Breaks up come with a guy having 3-6 gfs. Telling all of them same thing. They fall inlove. At the end of the day, he picks just one, or a total different person.  


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July 4, 2017 07:58  

@amanda in relationships is it can be girls but in marriages , is the man . being single as s girl is the most privelleges you can have . a man try every trick and tactic to make a girl say yes to him , when he finally get married to her.  . everything changes right there . he no longer see  threats of other guys , he stopped caring like he used to. He does not usually hit his girl when they were single, but being married to her he make her a punching bag . 


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July 4, 2017 08:02  

@honey, in marriages I think women are the major cause of divorces. Am a woman, but we nag too much, we look for fight when there is non. The man get frustrated and he start to hit her. And then she accused him of being abused. Most of this married women cheat. 

 


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July 4, 2017 08:06  

As a woman , won't you nag, when your husband constantly keep late nights , he doesn't show care.  Men nag too . they forget the things they used to do with their wives . forget birthdays,anniversary . they say is no longer relevant . but during relationship , they remind you of your birthdays . how come suddenly when they marry you, it becomes irrelevant and a thing to forget about . 


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July 4, 2017 08:07  

Lol. Why won't the men forget birthdays. When the fabulious girl they married is now looking old and inkempt? . 


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July 4, 2017 08:08  

Men make them look like that . They pay them no attention . so the ladies feel there is nothing to look good about . 


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July 4, 2017 08:17  

@honey, one of the reason men changed when they get married is that, those hidden things about the lady is unveiling itself. If you look neat during dating, putting all the effort for the man to think you are slay. Why changed after marriage? Women do make this as a huge mistake. A man find you attractive and he married you. And you  up looking like a granny he will change obviously.  


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July 4, 2017 08:22  

How she no go look like granny , when you stopped taking her for shopping . When the guy never marry her, he gives her money , real money to take care of her needs , after marriage , he will reduce it , that is so unfair. A single girl can get as much money from many single guys ,that is the only way to meet up . I think men should know that your wife needs more money in order to look good . she wasn't looking like granny, because she was well taken care of . 


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July 4, 2017 08:30  

@honey, these women are just greedy. I think divorce rate will be reduced if the women put their heads in one place. The rate at which married women cheats this days just to meet up is so hyped. Exactly my point, she gets money from different boys and she lived a luxury life, as she don marry she suppose cut down the slay queen packages. An average man whose salary is 50k  marries a young girl, you don't expect him to buy her human hair that is worth more than his salary.   


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July 4, 2017 08:53  

In marriages I think most people go into it for a reason. The question why did you get married?   Is it because you love him, or because he makes you happy , is it because he make love to you real good? Is it because of kids, for his money? For an America green card? Or for status, or an escape routes? Just question go to the guys too. 

This reasons could lead to disaster in marriages. And all this will definitely fade away especially when there is a selfish reason. Then you begin to bore yourselves. Both parties contribute to the recklessness of a failed marriage.  

Marriage is indeed a strong commitment. It only stands firm in test of times, if it was built on a foundation of love. Love conquers it all , and forgiveness is the main key. When couples learn to forgive and move forward is one of the flavours in marriages. Talking help couples too. Be straight with each other, but only the couple who got married being inlove can do all this.   Trust is the key word.  


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July 4, 2017 08:57  

Hahahah@clem, no mind me. Am here now. The sweetest sex, hmmm, OK oo, I like to hear yours first. Lol. 


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July 4, 2017 09:34  

@prisca people still marry for love . but that love is sometimes not enough . you need more than love to make a relationship work . understand . yes that is it. 


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July 4, 2017 10:02  

@clem that is where the problem is . guys don't show that they are irresponsible . they show you only the good side.  No woman will open her eye and go into a marriage after having an abusive relationship with the guy .  what we see out there , is how nice and sweet he was. For example I was dating a cultist, how am I suppose to know he is a cultist ? And brutal ? Terrible men act innocently before a girl they love .  my friend married a guy who smokes , she didn't know he smokes at all.  They dated for 4 years . AFter their honey moon , the guy smoked before her, she was damned . 


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July 4, 2017 10:13  

@prisca, cigar na big deal. How can a guy smoke for a whole 4 years and the girl is not aware? He deceived her. If a guy can hide cigarette for that long, he might have killed before. He is very capable of horrible things.  Men always reveal yourself.   


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July 4, 2017 10:31  

@clem very good point . there are men who won't show her loyalty . they are too proud to admit that they still love them @35 . I see maturity in aspect of making a relationship or marriage to work .  analyzing your points, its  a jealous behaviour of the women folks.   Women are  very possessive of their husband and bf , but not all of them .  A man should be able to make his wife  trust him around other women

Some women are can be very possessive, I have seen cases where a wife went to a girl and foughts her over her husband . I frowned at it, while others see it as her right to keep her man 

 


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July 4, 2017 10:38  

@clem if you disagree with a loveless marriage, why can they trust? You don't trust who you don't love.  


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July 4, 2017 11:29  

@clem, right on track dude. Girls chose to ignore what they see. If a girl dates a cultist, she will know he is a cultist, his actions. His friends. I and my friends were always chasing girls. We were known to be famous on that. Even our girls could feel and see the sighs.   There is always a mark. 


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July 4, 2017 12:07  

Love is rare but it is real is not every one that has bastardised the word. I believe in true love because Angela is a symbol of that. Most of us made mistakes in being with our partners is not because we turned a blind eye but because our eyes got opened in late hours. For axample Angela never saw the sign of ever dating a cultist but she did anyway, not because she was blind but because she saw the cool gentle mman 


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July 4, 2017 12:16  

Not knowing a guy is a cultist is understandable , but smoke,? There is always a smell.  I smoke not too , and my babe knows that . that girl must seen those sign and she chose  not to known. Like they say, what you don't know won't kill you. It does . she knows and she turned her eyes to the other side . 


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July 4, 2017 12:40  

Women and trouble . if I marry a woman and she looks dirty and dresses like my mum , I will get irritiated .  because she takes care of the kids will that make her look unkempt . some women will look classy and sweet and after marriage , you go fear watin you out for house .  Evans wife claim not knowing ifnher husband was involve in kidnapping , only god can be the judge of that. 

I can't marry who I do not love . love I forgiveness  like Angela said . how can you work on your relationship is there is no love between the two parties ? Clem said we chose to be with our partners irrespective of what they are ,we chose not to care , that is correct.  Rather we hope they will change.  People don't change from their bad habits . 


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July 5, 2017 08:53  

Guys are  the major cause of divorce and breakup . they fail to reason with a situation. They act with ego and pride . the make the female folk speechless . they torture you either silently or abusively . 


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July 6, 2017 07:16  

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July 6, 2017 07:27  

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July 6, 2017 08:15  

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July 6, 2017 08:25  

Girls and guys are involve . but the rate is higher . do you know the rate at which girls leave their bf or husband for richer men ? Money moves them . they eat popcorn with a guy because it was convienent , immediately they see chicken guy , with one lift of a finger they are gone . 


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July 6, 2017 08:32  

walia Godwin that is not totally true . I have seen girls stick with their bf even when they are damn broke . they enjoy the popcorn more than the chicken . is not what one eats that matter, is the joy at which they enjoy what they are eating . the popcorn eaters who love their bf are filled up more than those who eat chicken with jerks .


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July 6, 2017 08:38  

@sexyrose , have you ever left a guy for another because of money ? In my case , I didn't leave any but I had the two . very necessary . love without money  make you wear rags . 


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July 6, 2017 08:39  

@sexyrose , have you ever left a guy for another because of money ? In my case , I didn't leave any but I had the two . very necessary . love without money  make you wear rags . 


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