A guy have been dating this girl for more than a year; and he intent to marry her. But lately, while she was in his house for a visit they had a hot quarrel ( that's normal ). She was shouting at him, calling him name and swearing ; yes, it was obvious that she was pissed off and likewise him. When things were stating to escalate, he angrily ask her to leave his house , because she was stating to create a scene in his neighborhood . That was when she said something that baffled him and got him thinking. She said a lot of bad things, he never took any of them to heart because he knew she was angry , but not until she said this exact words " YOU HAVE TO PAY ME FOR ALL THE SEX YOU HAD WITH ME BEFORE I WILL LEAVE".
This got him thinking, has he been dating a prostitute? Why will she quantum sex with money?
Now, she is apologizing and asking me for forgiveness . A part of him wants to continue with the affair because he still love her and they have gone a long way, moreover, he has already introduce her to his family. But , another part of him don't want to continue because he feels he might not know her and that she might have dark secrets which may explode after marriage.
Guys what's your take on this?
I do not think she is a prostitute .,. sometimes girls say that exact words especially if they dont want to be at lost . Just like when two lovers break up they give each other the things they have exchanged . People can get really mouthy when they are angry .
My brother, i dont blame you the difference btw "decent girl" and prostitute is so blurred you can mixmatch the two and it wont make a difference.
i had a similar experience with one of my estate girls. We are just friends. infact i dont even fancy her sexually. like her company. and call her up for hangout and food.
one day, i called her up unto normal chat, asked her if she wanted to meet up for food the next day, she said no no she rather now!
it was 10pm.
All that cane to my mind was this chick must be horny. so i went over pick her up and brought her to my place.
after eating and watching tv, we went to bed and managed to squeeze in a dry sex.
she is nlt my type. her pussy lips are so thick like leather. i really wonder how she could have a proper orgasm.
anyway, i did try to get her wet, before finally using my Nivea cream, i just bang her thinking it was for her( thinking she was horny) actually i was tired , wasnt down for the sex.
In the morning, i gave her an expensive perfume i bought on one of my travels. she wasnt happy really. didnt show much appreciation.
as i dropped her off infront of her street she asked for transport money. i was like TP to where? i was running late for work na do i give am 1k. say we go see later.
Man, this bitch was so livid , refusing to disembark from my car, so called decent girl wan create scene.
saying as long as i fucked her i have to pay her.
Please what does that make her ?
lol @macjive , who is a prostitute ? It depend on how we classify them . majority of guys will say a girl who fucks well is a prostitute ,some will say a girl who collect money or something from a guy after sex is a prostitute . the question is who is more of a prostitute ?
For guys mind all women na ashawo, which is one thing girls groan for . @ macjive how you go fuck the girl finish and you no pay her ? First she is not your gf. That call has given her the hope of having some cash in her pocket.
@honey, collecting that money for transport was out of place . the feeling was not mutual . i think macjive thought he was doing it for her , and she thinks otherwise . aboiut being a prostitute i have a girl who fucked her bf very good on the first time they had sex and the guy said she is not good to be married to , as she was a pro on it . Most guys see decency in different ways .
I will prefer a girl who fuck well to be my prostitute , and my money go finish for her body . if the girl did not ask for that money am sure macjive would have given more if not that day , maybe another day . Woman na money . A girl who demand money after sex is not decent .
@angela , that is the reason most girls pretend to their real bf , that they don't know how to fuck , and when they are with other guys they fuck better because it just sex .
Is not every guy that want his gf to just lay on the bed and do nothing . there was girl i had sex with . my dude don testify say the girl dey try for the marra , only for me to find out she was a crier . Those type of girl who shout and scream is paining me , while screaming pains , she wont allow you to remove it. It hurt , should i stop no . nooo .. My kind of girls are those girls that dont try to impress me , just do your thing , and let me do mine .
@godwin same men will say , this girl too spoil , na so she go dey fuck other men up and down . you don't please guys . you can never please them no matter how hard you try . if you fuck them well, you are a spoilt girl , if you don't , you are not sexually active. What do you guys want ?
@macjve the girl na real ashi . it very glaring . @angela truth be told , why will a decent girl be fucked on first day she being act like professional for bed . I met a girl in church . we got talking and she was preaching how wonderful God was. I saw her like sister mary .In our first night to have sex this girl showed me that she is a well call girl.Infact i concluded . As i was taking it slowly ,she turned me down and she whinned her waist like a super porn star . Trust me i enjoyed it , but my thought towards her changed. I like girls to pretend a bit . Dont show yourself too much , sofery enter with one leg before putting the two on ground .
I think for a girl its best to give the guy -a heads up , especially if he is the type expecting a tight pussy, vould tell her my long term ex was an expert thought me a lot.
for me i really do prefer deep , well oiled pussy. viv type without the forest . (make disease no dey sha)
@angela, I don't not think it was out of place to have asked for the money. He fucked her, and macjive dey form say him do am for the girl. And his dick was entering all through. Didn't you cum macjive? She is wise enough to have collected her money, after all, macjive will not come back or take her as his gf. Na win win oh.
So Linda, as Honey toto been dey tickle her a couple of days back, if i had answered the call for help to go quench the flame, she for turn around demand for money from me the next morning?
Na honey suppose pay macjive . I tire for this girls , a brother helped and nor be say the thning sweet am like that . even collected expensive perfume for a fuck not well done, dropped her like a VIP , and she still dey ask for money .
She collect her money well . macjive invited her for a drink and food , she supposedly think she will be paid . she is wise , fuck and pay . na so .
She knows macjive have a gf , she needed to feel good , I think that is one of the reason girls demand for money to feel not being used .
This na simple logic, she service you macjive and you pay her. Money should not be hard to spend on a girl na. I have never done free sex.
people saying money money.. how about the perfume?
The nice treatment.
sha .. i no blame her. that was the last. deleted her number right away.
@macjive , all those things is better given in cash . at times we girls wish they gives us the money rather than the gifts . being broke for a certain period no funny . @macjive that girl needed money that period. I can relate with her . she is not a prostitute , she was in need of cash . giving her 1k , na waoooo. If you had understood her, you would have given her more .
i finally gave her 20k ; make she carry her wahala go far.
Guess what? No thank you from her.
meaning she expects it like a seller would expect you to pay for a service.